I know this doesn't answer your original question, but my philosophy is to, at firs,t buy where you would be happy going every year. It is also better to select a place which is in driving distance, to avoid the cost of airfare if possible. I know its easy to get caught up in the trading /lockoff game and try to maximize your vacation nights and upgrading villa sizes and many people are very successful at this. However,in your situation, living in the east with 2 young school children I would seriously consider buying a resale South Carolina timeshare in the platinum season. If during some years, you want a change they trade, very well, but they are not lockoffs, so you would only get one week for yours. They also rent out very well, some at 2x maintenance fees, should you be inclined to do so. Before you decide, I would run these numbers and see how they stack up. you might be suprised, esp when considering airfare, car rentals, etc. Good luck with your decision.
I agree with the spirit of this post, although I don’t have the Marriott expertise to get into the nitty gritty of what’s best to own.
But I am most comfortable with TS ownership that meets the following criteria:
1. If all the current trading paradigm changes, I’d be happy to visit my TS every time. Or, if my intended use of my timeshare falls through, I’m ok using it myself.
2. I can use it without paying fees beyond my MF- ie I don’t need a Redweek account to rent it, or an II exchange fee to use it
3. I can get there inexpensively and bring a ton of stuff, including groceries from home if need be. IE it’s a driveable location.
4. I can rid myself of the timeshare easily when I’m done with it (most good season Marriotts fit the bill).
The basic idea is that if costs escalate beyond expectation, you’re not stuck in a TS you can’t use or recoup your annual costs by renting.
Lock offs are really nice (because they add a big layer of flexibility to TS ownership), and generally speaking I prefer them. But sometimes you specifically want to own at a resort that doesn’t have lock off units.
Dont get me wrong- I have a pure trader (SBP) that I never want to go to, I’d have to fly to use it, and someday I might have trouble getting rid of it. So sometimes you break your own rules and still find yourself hanging onto a timeshare you really should part with.
But I agree with JonT that there’s a few other factors to consider that might decrease the hassle factor of TS ownership. If Marriott Hilton Head resorts were lock offs, they’d be perfect for you. Maybe Florida is close enough for you to drive to, esp as the kids get older- so those might be good choices. If Williamsburg Marriotts are lock offs, Id consider one of those too.