Good for him. That's the kind of abusive and self-absorbed behavior I've seen.
Delicate subject. Point taken.
You are absolutely right. My mom (God bless her soul) is 93. She too could not begin to get a bag into the overhead. I would be the first person to jump to her aid; or the aid of anyone who needs it at the airport or on the plane (elderly, injured, children etc...). I also open doors etc... kind of a dying art these days.
But, those who can not lift heavy bags into the overhead....should probably have their bags checked by the nice skycaps at the curb or get a passenger escort to assist them to the gate and on the plane if necessary. This isn't cruel...this is just a bit of truth. I know that some (my mom too) don't like checking luggage etc... But someone who is totally unable to carry/lift/stow their bag at the curb, the checkpoint, the escalator, the stairs (to the ramp for RJ's) and into the overhead.... well, perhaps they need to plan for assistance. They also need to board first and get off last to get assistance and care if needed. IMHO.
I'm not hurling insults to anyone's mom or kids traveling on the plane who need a little help. The folks I'm mentioning are the ones who EXPECT everyone else to accommodate their needs--whether it's being late, demanding seat changes, incapable of controlling their luggage (or kids? :annoyed
and generally blaming everyone and everything else for their problems. This is not the majority of travelers in my experience.
It just seems that I remember them in particular. Again, not being mean, just asking that people think ahead and not put their needs ahead of their fellow travelers.
On a side note that many others will appreciate: At Luwai BR, despite the large sign that said "be respectful and don't recycle late at night..." (paraphrase) people continued to dump their empty beer bottles into the can (quite loudly) late into the night. Of course, the open windows (no AC) for the bedroom are 10 feet from the can. Not very considerate huh?