Thanks so much to everyone!
Here is the long story...
I scoured every Aruba bulletin board and timeshare board for rentals and found an owner with a one-bedroom La Quinta week. She sent me the rental agreement. Then, the next day, she called to tell me that she was renting to someone else and had someone for me to rent from (an agent). I wasn't very happy but that is life.
This new agent then took my credit card information and told me I have a studio at La Cabana (not my first choice, especially a studio, but I figured I would not stay in the room much). Then, the next day, the agent told me that the unit had been rented by the resort. He apologized and said it was an unusual circumstance, etc. He offered The Aruban but I did not want to book it.
The next day, he said he had another studio unit at Divi Phoenix. I told him to book it. Two days later, you guessed it, he once again told me it was sold.

Of course, now I was twice-burned and began my internet hunt once again. You would be surprised at the lack of availability. I think most people that don't use their units at the last minute don't list them. It's a shame. There were a lot of people searching (according to the people who's units had already been rented).
Finally, I found a unit at Paradise Beach Villas (2 bedroom ocean front in Phase II) that I've rented (from very nice people at a great price). I am staying a few extra days (Jan. 4-7 and have a week at Casa Del Mar (2 bedroom) for those days (if anyone needs nights from the 7th to the 11th, let me know!).
So, I'm staying at Paradise Beach Villas and Casa Del Mar, both for the first time. I love eagle Beach (I've stayed at Costa Linda and La Cabana) so I am excited! If anyone has advice, please send it along.
Oh, I also booked my reservations for Madam Janette and Chalet Suisse for dinners. Does anyone have suggestions for other places that are family-appropriate (not so much for romance! lol). Also, any suggestions for New year's eve and day dinners?
Thanks again!!