We were excited to have traded into Frenchman's Cove next Memorial day week.. now we were just notified that we got a match for Ocean Club during 4th of July week next year... Don't want to do both trips so are trying to decide which one to release..
Dd will be 3 at that time.. any suggestions on which one to keep? Thanks so much!!
For me it would all depend on what you wanted to do on your vacation. I have been both places and they are very different islands. Aruba is a desert and rather flat, St. Thomas is much more green and mountainous providing for a much better scenery. While the water in both places is very clear, St. Thomas water is just a tad clearer. Aruba's beaches are unmatched anywhere I have been, and better than St. Thomas. The sand there is so fine and powdery. The beaches in St. Thomas are great, but not like Aruba. St. Thomas provides a real breadth of places that can be explored with easy transportation options, like St. John, Tortola, Jost Van Dyke, whereas Aruba I don't believe does (You may be able to get to Bonaire and Curacou easy, I have never looked).
On a more subjective note, and these are just my opinion based upon a very limited sample of one visit per island. I found Aruba's locals to be much more friendly. They all seemed to be happy you were there whereas on St Thomas, you got the feeling they wish you would leave. Aruba has much less crime than St. Thomas.
In summary, if you like great scenery and exploring many locations I would suggest St. Thomas. If you like to hang out on a beach all day and relax, I would pick Aruba.
The two islands are different enough where the choice should be simple for you, but you'll have to decide what you want to do on vacation.