I’ve read all of these reviews and I’ve got to say that if these folks are from Maryland, the Big Island and Kauai might be just a little too quiet for them at first. Being from New York originally, I was bored very easily going to real tranquil places like Kauai. I needed some movement and activity that was at least accessible. Maui in my opinion is waaaaay overrated. MOC is a nice resort, but there’s a lot of activity right outside of it. That’s a very busy strand and in my opinion even busier than Ko Olina and it doesn’t have as nice a beach area outside of it as Ko Olina. Don’t get me wrong, I like Maui, but it’s third on my list behind Kauai and Oahu. That being said, my recommendation would be that this first timer go to Maui first and then Oahu. Maui has a good Hawaiian feel away from Ka’anapali. The better beaches are out on the other side off the Road to Hana. After experiencing Maui, then hit Oahu. People are always talking about the first 25 minutes after you land on Oahu. Yes, you drop right smack in the heart of Hawaii’s capital with shoppes galore, a plethora of restaurants and activities for all ages of every kind. I love that OPTION. When one gets to Ko Olina, it’s like going to another world. It’s pristine. The resort is gorgeous there are a few restaurants and pizza shops and other eateries that the shuttle can take you if you don’t want to eat on the property. Driving into downtown Honolulu during rush hour is not pleasant, but where is it pleasant in any city during rush hour and the main jobs are in a central locale. Have you ever been on that main road that takes you from Waiohai to the other side of the island during rush hour? You’d have thought you were in Manhattan and they drive nice and slow so it seems longer. My point though is that Oahu has its island features and Hawaii feel just like Maui does. You go over to the North Shore and you forget about Waikiki. It’s the same with Maui. There’s a big difference between Lahaina/Ka’anapali and Wailea. I’m sure wherever they go, they will enjoy. But I believe Maui to Oahu is the way to go. Again, just MY humble opinion.