clifffaith
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I wasn't going to answer the phone, but since I'm sitting next to it and I'd seen the same number pop up 40 minutes earlier, I did. Social worker calling wondering if perhaps she'd reached someone related to "Jean from Port Angeles, WA". Well, Jean is my husband's ex-wife. Do you know if there are other relatives? Her brother died some years ago, as did a member of the younger generation, but I believe there is a nephew. Let me turn you over to Cliff. Cliff was able to give the woman the nephew's name and that he thinks he lives in San Francisco. Turns out Jean, who is 90, is in the hospital in a bad way and they are looking for "guidance" from a relative. The nephew hasn't seen her since he was a little boy (this from Cliff's now deceased niece, his sister) so I'm sure he doesn't want to deal with this (unless perhaps he thinks he's an heir??). Asked Cliff if he couldn't help, they were married 19 years (we just hit 35 years) -- they had no discussion of final wishes when they were in their 40s?? He said no and seemed unconcerned so I let it drop. So EVERYONE needs to have some documentation on what to do if they become incapacitated.