@SteelerGal , I seem to recall some posts from you from a few months (or more) previous on this very issue. We are in the same boat as you - trying to plan a first trip to Hawaii that was supposed to occur in 2020. As an aside, you might want to visit this thread:
Hello all, I know there has been a good amount of discussion on TUG about the many options and changes in how to get to Hawaii by air. With Southwest's entrance into this market, I would hope prices would come down and more options become available, but Southwest does not offer first class...
tugbbs.com
...as I am trying to find the most economical way to take this trip but enjoying it as much as possible at the same time.
Having said that, I know our previous trip was scheduled to the west side of the Big Island (Kona) and we had read up a good bit on the Hawaii Revealed website / app. If you have not checked that out, it might be a useful resource to you.
www.revealedtravelguides.com