puppymommo
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I followed with interest PJrose's thread on applying for disability knowing this day would come. Yesterday DH and I filled out the online application on ssa.gov for disability for him. He loves his job but has been on sick leave (w/o pay) since 1/10 this time around and has to wait at least 2 more weeks for another evaluation. DH has schizophrenia and this is the 3rd time in the past 5 years since being diagnosed that he has had a major break (hearing voices telling him to hurt himself). Yes, he does take his meds faithfully and still gets sick.
We know that the minimum time for being approved is at least 6 months and that many (if not most) people are denied the first time they apply. We are also going through this with our SIL (step-daughter's DH) who has COPD. He was denied and they are now working with a lawyer.
Back to DH. He loves his job and he would love to go back to work. But he is also scared. He really does not want to have a major breakdown AT WORK.
One thing that is unclear is if it is better for him to resign or to be fired for not coming to work. He already missed 6 weeks of work in the fall for an unrelated problem and it will be at least 6 weeks before he can go back, if at all. As soon as his employment is terminated, we can withdraw his small amount of retirement benefits (under 10k) which could help us survive until disability benefits kick in (or we find out he is denied).
One good thing I discovered looking around the disability website is that schizophrenia is one of about 100 "fast track" diseases that are usually approved; right up there with pancreatic cancer. :ignore:
Another good thing is that if he gets disability payments, he can still work part time and earn under $1000/month. That would be perfect for him to find a low stress part time job. Stress of any kind really throws him off balance.
Someone once said, "Mental illness is not a casserole disease." When you loved one goes into the mental hospital, no one brings you a casserole.
Ain't it the truth.
We know that the minimum time for being approved is at least 6 months and that many (if not most) people are denied the first time they apply. We are also going through this with our SIL (step-daughter's DH) who has COPD. He was denied and they are now working with a lawyer.
Back to DH. He loves his job and he would love to go back to work. But he is also scared. He really does not want to have a major breakdown AT WORK.
One thing that is unclear is if it is better for him to resign or to be fired for not coming to work. He already missed 6 weeks of work in the fall for an unrelated problem and it will be at least 6 weeks before he can go back, if at all. As soon as his employment is terminated, we can withdraw his small amount of retirement benefits (under 10k) which could help us survive until disability benefits kick in (or we find out he is denied).
One good thing I discovered looking around the disability website is that schizophrenia is one of about 100 "fast track" diseases that are usually approved; right up there with pancreatic cancer. :ignore:
Another good thing is that if he gets disability payments, he can still work part time and earn under $1000/month. That would be perfect for him to find a low stress part time job. Stress of any kind really throws him off balance.
Someone once said, "Mental illness is not a casserole disease." When you loved one goes into the mental hospital, no one brings you a casserole.
Ain't it the truth.
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