I think there is a great amount of truth to your thoughts. From the beginning, the judges have seemed to be very gun-shy on their comments, and it seems like they go out of their way to ensure they don't talk to Crystal in a condescending manner (like they do for ALL of the other contestants). And Crystal does have this nature of appearing to be in control while getting feedback from the judges.
I don't mind that in a singer, however. I'll be anxiously awaiting Crystal's first release and I've enjoyed her singing throughout the show.
Having said all that, I'm now pulling for Lee. I like the underdog factor, and he seems to be the more likeable of the two.
Yeah, I noticed that, too; maybe not "gun shy", but more like they were talking to an equal, rather than to someone who they thought was malleable. Like they were talking to a raw Lucinda Willaims.
I didn't mind it at all, either. In fact, it made me certain that if I buy a Crystal Bowersox album, it's going to be a Crystal Bowersox album, not her singing someone else's idea of what she should sound like.
I got nothing against Lee, if he wins, great. But I won't toss any $$ his way. Crystal, win or lose, I'm going to listen to her. I feel what she feels.