I have a 50% tear and starting to set up consults.
My sister is scaring the hell out of me based on what her friend went thru, I have no idea if our situations are similar so thought I would turn to this treasure trove of folks that have been there done that.
I was thinking this was like other surgeries where PT starts nearly immediately. Is this true or is there a period of needing to be immobilized?
I have become accustomed to doing most everything with my other arm while I've healed from other stuff and the arm is simply weak and ineffective, but I do live alone and she tells me that I must have someone here with me while I recover. Fact or crap?
I half expect to hear "it depends" but would like to hear from anyone that has had the surgery and can give me some idea.
I am not sure I would do spine surgery at roughly same time but I am cottoning to the idea of getting everything over with, live the misery a few weeks, then finally maybe start to feel normal with much less pain in my life. I can get a short term roommate, I have a rockstar friend that would do it and I live 5 minutes from her job. I prefer to remain solo but I just need to know if that is reasonable.
I will of course ask lots of questions as I go around to the different surgeons but I know from experience they won't tell me everything and may downplay the level of pain I should expect and possibly my ability to live alone. If all I need is the 24 hour watcher to make sure I come down from anesthesia ok, that's easy. If it's more than that, I will have to coordinate my surgery with plans of my chosen caretaker.
I would also appreciate honest input on whether the shoulder feels normal and returns to full utility. I am 53 and always active and sporty. I hope to get back to that but if that is dreaming, I'd like to know it.
And I hate to ask, but has anyone had the surgery and had bad results, like wishing they'd never tried to have it repaired. I hope not, but I wanna know.
thanks for any input. nobody likes surgery but I tend to get freaked out. Knowledge is power, so if I can set my expectations appropriately then it will be an easier go mentally.
My sister is scaring the hell out of me based on what her friend went thru, I have no idea if our situations are similar so thought I would turn to this treasure trove of folks that have been there done that.
I was thinking this was like other surgeries where PT starts nearly immediately. Is this true or is there a period of needing to be immobilized?
I have become accustomed to doing most everything with my other arm while I've healed from other stuff and the arm is simply weak and ineffective, but I do live alone and she tells me that I must have someone here with me while I recover. Fact or crap?
I half expect to hear "it depends" but would like to hear from anyone that has had the surgery and can give me some idea.
I am not sure I would do spine surgery at roughly same time but I am cottoning to the idea of getting everything over with, live the misery a few weeks, then finally maybe start to feel normal with much less pain in my life. I can get a short term roommate, I have a rockstar friend that would do it and I live 5 minutes from her job. I prefer to remain solo but I just need to know if that is reasonable.
I will of course ask lots of questions as I go around to the different surgeons but I know from experience they won't tell me everything and may downplay the level of pain I should expect and possibly my ability to live alone. If all I need is the 24 hour watcher to make sure I come down from anesthesia ok, that's easy. If it's more than that, I will have to coordinate my surgery with plans of my chosen caretaker.
I would also appreciate honest input on whether the shoulder feels normal and returns to full utility. I am 53 and always active and sporty. I hope to get back to that but if that is dreaming, I'd like to know it.
And I hate to ask, but has anyone had the surgery and had bad results, like wishing they'd never tried to have it repaired. I hope not, but I wanna know.
thanks for any input. nobody likes surgery but I tend to get freaked out. Knowledge is power, so if I can set my expectations appropriately then it will be an easier go mentally.