Well, I should have posted long ago, but the frustration level was too high.
I had a bad experience with a "reputable" time share company that so turned me off I cancelled the whole trip and am now soured on time shares.
I have a difficult job and it is very hard to get vacation time. My kids had been eagerly talking about this trip every day for a month. So you can imagine my shock when I learned Hilton Timeshares had pulled a bait and switch.
Three days before the trip, I received a call from the timeshare agent, to confirm my attendance at the hotbox session. They very casually mentioned the hotel I would be staying at, because I would not be staying at the resort, because the resort had become sold out for my 3 days.
Several things to understand: first, I am a pretty sophisticated consumer. I listen carefully to offers, especially when I think they are suspicious (and I think any time share offer is suspicious). I am 100% certain that, at the time of booking, I asked "will I actually be staying at the resort?" and the answer was an unqualified Yes. Second, I have been a diamond-level member of Hilton's frequent stayer program for years (i.e., a good customer) and I thought I would have some protection from typical time share scams because of it.
But, with 6 weeks of buildup (including the research I did here and my pre-calculated plan for what I would and would not pay to purchase a timeshare during the trip - and especially with the anticipation of my family and having secured the difficult days off), Hilton announced that I would be staying at another hotel nearby and only coming to the resort for a few hours to hear the hotbox. The hotel they wanted me to use was older and run down (again, I stay at a lot of hilton properties). Most importantly, it was not on the beach and it did not have the two bedroom and kitchen layout that is so critical to our being able to travel with our kids. Simply put, we have to have two bedrooms (so we can separate the kids) or no one sleeps.
I argued and argued with them about this bait and switch. They claim they said this in the booking call (and they most certainly did not; I would never have booked this if I thought there was even a 1% change of this happening). I reminded them that the original booking conversation was recorded and asked the manager to go listen to it and follow up with what he heard (he promised he would and then I never heard back).
So, after almost an hour of arguing (and my wife in tears as she listened and processed that we were not getting the vacation we planned), I canceled. I took money out of savings and booked a rental at an island 100 miles further away that had the features we need, so we could at least use my vacation days and give the kids a trip. And we would probably never consider a timeshare again.
My last question for this user group is as follows: how can I warn others about this? I thought Hilton was one of the reputable companies, but I was wrong. Most people reading this site are experienced time share folks who would not be fooled as I was (or maybe not care). But as I said, I am a pretty sophisticated consumer and this took me in and all my research into scams never prepared me for this particular scam.