So, it sounds like the OP will be relocating from Long Island to NC, when the promotion offer comes through. I wish him and his family all the best with the relocation. It sounds like the move will be good for them. (back on topic)
Damn, you hit the nail on the head of my biggest negative! I LOVE to ski and being in the mountains! We go skiing for 1 week each year at Park City and its my favorite trip of the year! If I didn't have little kids I'd go more then once a year.
So much of a move depends on your attitude and how adaptable you are to change. Here in NC the cost of living is low and the weather is mild, and both the beach and the mountains are close by. We have GREAT colleges...Duke, UNC, Wake Forest. But we don't have Manhattan! And Raleigh/Durham is considered a major airport here In general, NC is a conservative state, so you might be in for some culture shock. I moved from NJ to KY to NC..I would go back to KY but not NJ..I'm too southern now!
I was born and raised on LI in Suffolk County. I used to play PAL ice hockey close to where you live. I left when I was 18 to go to school in SC at Clemson.
My parents were both public school teachers. When they retired they relocated to the SC upstate actually not too far from Clemson. With their NY teachers pensions they're able to live like kings there where the cost of living is so much less. Since they moved literally four of our other neighbors on LI have moved down to their same city in SC. When they visited and saw what kind of a home they could get and what the property taxes were like they were sold. We went there for Thanksgiving this year and I literally hung out with 3 of my friends that I grew up with on LI as we were all visiting our parents.
We still have family on LI and we go there to visit. We just went there this summer and our whole family rented a large house and had a blast. Hawaiian actually has a direct flight now to JFK, but I digress.
Raleigh and the research triangle is a great area! There aren't many other areas in the country that would be better to relocate to. Your daughter can transfer to some really good universities and there's plenty of good public schools in that area for your son.
If it were me, I would make the move.
All true, and in fact you don't have to live right in Raleigh to work in Raleigh. The least conservative, most progressive parts of the Triangle Area are Durham and Chapel Hill, if this is a consideration for you, and have also become somewhat of a foodie capital, getting written up in places like NY Times and Bon Appetit. Durham would be the most diverse.The Research Triangle is the most liberal part of North Carolina. in fact,
all urban areas..Charlotte, Greensboro and Raleigh/ Durham/Chapel Hill are
more liberal than conservative. You will find a real mix of people from everywhere. There is definitely diversity in the Raleigh area...
Rural NC is conservative, Raleigh is definitely not.
As we continue to discuss this with our loved ones the positives are far out numbering the negatives but the negatives if not converted to a positive carries alot of weight with our decision.
I'm referring to my in-laws and if I can get them to agree to make the move with us. They're such a big part of our lives and we're the only ones of the 6 kids that the parents want to be with. All the other kids have moved away and hardly see them but we've been sharing every special moment together for the last 20 years and we would be hard pressed to leave these wonderful people. If they agree to come it almost makes it a no-brainer.
They are definitely open to it but they are very set in their ways so I need more than just words I need a real commitment to do it. It would involve selling two homes so there will be challenging logistics to coordinate but if they agreed to come and we found a nice two family compound I could see this working out superbly.
I'm really getting ahead of things because there really is no guarantee MetLife will make the moves although all indications are they are going to.
Personally I'm pretty damn excited about it because as much as I love my siblings and LI my primary focus is my family's long term security and happiness and I can see the move being a real positive in that aspect if every thing falls into place.
It may be a few weeks to a month before an announcement is made but I'll keep reporting if any news does develop.
Ideally it's a slow process and my daughter can finish year 2 and then we can make the transition.
Thanks again for all the positive and not so positive feedback, its all part of the equation so I thank everyone for the honesty.
There are pockets of conservatives. The school board in Raleigh was taken over and their first decision was to segregate schools again. That has changed. Life is different there.
The k-12 schools are not ranked as high as the North. There is a reason salaries and taxes are so high up north. North believes in putting money back into schools, parks, libraries, etc.
Seriously, there are NO cons! If you have that opportunity, do not hesitate...it is an amazing opportunity! We should be so lucky!
Huh, segregation?
Please provide a reference because I think that statement is purely biased opinion not based on any facts.