Just the overage on that house from list price would buy a 3,000-4,000 sqft brand new custom built luxury house here in Oklahoma. That's why we have a lot of Californians moving here, and it's amazing how many did not even realize the whole country doesn't share their pricing. A tiny fraction of what they sell their house for funds early retirement and a brand new house. Before we moved to our final home here, we lived in McKinney Tx, a Dallas suburb. Our 3,600 sq ft house was 3 years old when we bought it, purchase price, $140,000. But we did not want to retire there, property tax too expensive since TX has no state income tax, so, moved across the border and can afford a brand new car payment the rest of my life just on property tax savings. And property tax here freezes when you become a senior, so that savings over Texas grows every time they increase rates. Close enough to DFW to fly most anywhere. Close enough to Tulsa to fly cheaper sometimes.
Used to know a guy in the same field as I was, IT. He moved to San Francisco because he "made more money" than me in Tulsa. I lived in a typical $90,000 2,600 sqft house custom built on acreage surrounded by 100,000 acres of forest (great in winter for hiking with no bugs up and down hills near Leonard OK and a Russian base!), with a typical new car. He lived in an old worn efficiency apt. with an old beater scraping by. But sure, he made "more" money.
I guess it's good there are a lot of states, something for everyone. Most people seem to like where they live, which is good. There's no correct answer as to where to live, individual choice. For me, I don't think it likely I'd be retired today had I had lived in most other states, at least the bigger ones pop wise.