Even though I plan many things for our trips, the most fun and enjoyment always happens spontaneously. It works this way every where I go. It can happen anywhere at any time, especially when doing things out of the ordinary.
I really don't offer or take too much unsolicited advice from friends and especially family. I do smile when someone I know buys a timeshare while on vacation for $15,000 - $80,000. They usually tell me what a great deal they got then a year or two later complain that they are having problems using it. They have enough money to do as they like.
The exceptions are my kid and grandkids. They receive all kinds of advice from me. Most of it good, I think.
I do try to get them here, at the tug forums. Unless I sit them down and actually help them register I think most do not follow through. I don't know what your friends say when you tell them about tug.com but mine usually grin and and give me a hard time. Get it, Tug, hard time. maybe its just a guy thing. For the last decade I always say join timeshare user group. Even though we refer to each other here as "tuggers" I wouldn't dare tell my friends or family that I am a tugger at tug.com.
Bill