I like that quote. Is this why. I have learned the word Yes and keep smiling.
I borrowed it from Zsa Zsa Gabor - "A man is not complete until he is married. After that he is finished."
also from Zsa Zsa - "I'm an excellent housekeeper. Every time I get divorced I keep the house."
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On a more serious note, one time I received an excellent piece of advice (regarding a work situation, but highly applicable to marriage). The advice was to take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. In one column put solutions that involve you taking an action or changing an attitude. In the other column pot solutions that required other people to change their actions or attitudes.
Then ask yourself, which of those solutions do you have the most ability to put into effect by your own efforts? Is it easier to change yourself and your actions, or to try to compel other people to change their actions.
Once I did that I realized the extent I had tied myself to changing her instead of simply accepting her and loving unconditionally. And that made all the difference. Another of the realizations that is part of being blessed. I am free from feeling that my peace and joy requires something from other people.