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My Realtor Interviews and Fear of Selling Our Home

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Ask your realtor for a recommendation for a lawyer who deals in real estate. Realtors all have lawyers they work with. If the realtor's New York lawyer says he/she can't help with a New Hampshire contract, look for a respected New Hampshire realtor online, one who is very close to your new home in New Hampshire. Then call that realtor, explain the situation, and ask for a lawyer recommendation.

I found a NH one on my own to keep things objective. She has done a few closings there in the past. I do not have a realtor. This realtor is the sellers realtor.
 

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In my mind, your agreement for the first lot became 'null and void' when they told you it was a 'no go' for that lot.

Right. Exactly.
 

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Is this on endicott and white oaks?


It is off Endicott. Don't know about White Oaks. Our home would actually be off Hilliard.
 

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I feel better now knowing the attorney will be involved. I sent the paralegal everything i had that the realtor sent me- even though she did not ask for it. Can never be too diligent!

Just as I mentioned before about atty's knowing what to look for, the paralegal even told me over the phone to look out for the transfer fee clause in the purchase agreement because we want to make sure it states the seller is paying his portion and not having us pay the entire amount. That is how it should work because in NH it is expensive. Now right there is something I would not have known.

Thankfully, I see that it is stated that way in the agreement and tomorrow we can make sure it is still in there when/if we sign it.
 
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It is off Endicott. Don't know about White Oaks. Our home would actually be off Hilliard.
My acquaintance said she used to live off endicott and white oaks, in a park model
 

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My acquaintance said she used to live off endicott and white oaks, in a park model


Oh wow. Well- This used to be an RV park. That is why the land is such as it is with the ground lease.
 

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I found a NH one on my own to keep things objective. She has done a few closings there in the past. I do not have a realtor. This realtor is the sellers realtor.


I meant your realtor who is selling your home in NY State. But it sounds like you're already on track with a NH lawyer, so good work!
 

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I meant your realtor who is selling your home in NY State. But it sounds like you're already on track with a NH lawyer, so good work!


LOL! OH! DUH! My brain is on overload! We have used the same real estate atty here in NY for all our transactions, so as long as he is not retired, we intend to use him again.
 
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Our good friends had a custom home built in New Mexico - their experience was quite different than ours, but I understand your point about tract homes.

I agree. We have tried the custom home experience. Bought 23 acres of build-ready land in Carmel for a great price. All utilities at the site line. What looked like minor grading when we purchased. Hired the architect, builder, landscape architect, tree removal company and engineers. The construction costs kept going up and up every time we spoke with the builder. The builder was responsible for his subs and getting that done. After 2 years and $200,000, we abandoned the project and bought an existing custom home designed and built by another family. They lost $1 million on this sale to us. We are much happier now. Now we are considering selling the land at a loss so we can get out of the humongous property taxes, annual property tax assessment for the road and the HOA country clubs fees for the community. We have owned it since 2012 and the land value is depreciating. I think buying a custom home resale like we eventually did or buying a semi-custom home from a builder might be the best thing. I would not want a tract home. Live and learn.
 
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Glad you have an attorney. The seller’s agent is probably also getting a commission on the buyers side and was prepared to earn less had you had an agent. You can be sure that you are paying for it all in the price of the home.
I might consider adding a penalty clause covering builder delays. 5 months for five houses seem overly optimistic. One thing about local attorneys is that they will do more business with your builder than with you. May not mean much in a state that doesn’t require them. We wanted to sue our builder many years ago in another area of SC and a local attorney told me no attorney in our town would sue him and advised me to go out of town. Turns out that all knew he was a crook but also knew he had his money in wife & children’s trust accounts.
 

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Glad you have an attorney. The seller’s agent is probably also getting a commission on the buyers side and was prepared to earn less had you had an agent. You can be sure that you are paying for it all in the price of the home.
I might consider adding a penalty clause covering builder delays. 5 months for five houses seem overly optimistic. One thing about local attorneys is that they will do more business with your builder than with you. May not mean much in a state that doesn’t require them. We wanted to sue our builder many years ago in another area of SC and a local attorney told me no attorney in our town would sue him and advised me to go out of town. Turns out that all knew he was a crook but also knew he had his money in wife & children’s trust accounts.

The paralegal did not seem to know this builder. Another attorney’s paralegal that I called a few days ago never even heard of the community and they are located in the same town!

I think In states where attorneys are not required for real estate transactions you will find many attorneys who have not been involved with any builders, though some have, of course.

As for the realtor- sure- she doesn’t have to split the commission with a buyers agent.

I am not impressed with buyers agents anyway. Let’s face it, though they technically represent you, they still have a vested interest in getting the deal done so they can get their share of the commission. So they cannot be totally objective either. That is why I think an attorney is the best bet.

Oh- and there is a section in the purchase agreement where the seller has to write on a completion date so it will be interesting to see what is written in.
 

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I prefer cooking with gas but I also prefer cleaning a glass topped stove. The new ones have instant heat on at least one burner. The heavy grates on my gas cooktops are hard to clean and hold up to clean under. If you keep up with spills on glass cooktop, it always looks good. Since you are used to it, I wouldn’t switch. I prefer electric ovens and dryers and top load washing machines. Our Rinnai tankless water heater does a good job though the bathroom we added gets it last. We don’t have recirculating. We may need another one the same size tethered to it with our new bathroom remodel. But it is nice not to worry about water damage from a tank. Spend your upgrade money on items you can not add later.
 

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I prefer cooking with gas but I also prefer cleaning a glass topped stove. The new ones have instant heat on at least one burner. The heavy grates on my gas cooktops are hard to clean and hold up to clean under. If you keep up with spills on glass cooktop, it always looks good. Since you are used to it, I wouldn’t switch. I prefer electric ovens and dryers and top load washing machines. Our Rinnai tankless water heater does a good job though the bathroom we added gets it last. We don’t have recirculating. We may need another one the same size tethered to it with our new bathroom remodel. But it is nice not to worry about water damage from a tank. Spend your upgrade money on items you can not add later.


Thanks for your input. I hadn't even considered the stove top cleaning. Good point! Being a clean freak, those grates would make me nuts!

I am going to stick with what I know for the dryer and range. $800 saved.

And we will get that on demand water heater also.
 

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I makes no business sense to me that he would build one house at a time when he could have crews moving from one on to the next as they go up. As to adding a completion date, I’m sure the fine print covers all sorts of contingencies. Some people add penalties for delays as well as when builder may take a draw in funds.
 

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Thanks for your input. I hadn't even considered the stove top cleaning. Good point! Being a clean freak, those grates would make me nuts!

I am going to stick with what I know for the dryer and range. $800 saved.

And we will get that on demand water heater also.

Right! I finally did learn to buy a gas cooktop where the burners are raised a little in order to clean around them and the bottom under grates is black. The silver bottoms show everything!
 
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Right! I finally did learn to buy a gas cooktop where the burners are raised a little in order to clean around them and the bottom under grated is black. The silver bottoms show everything!

When we move I am really going to miss my GE range. I just love it and it is only a few years old. Now I will have to take what the builder gives standard to keep costs down for now. Then again- that is the case with this entire house- bathrooms and all! But that is what downsizing is all about when you are on a budget.
 

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Induction. Behaves like gas; cleans like electric glass cooktop; add'l + is safety features. I changed from gas to induction during our recent reno and couldn't be happier.

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I prefer cooking with gas but I also prefer cleaning a glass topped stove... ...
 

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Oh - and I prefer top loading washing machines also and I intend to get another one of those when we move.
 

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I prefer cooking with gas but I also prefer cleaning a glass topped stove. The new ones have instant heat on at least one burner. The heavy grates on my gas cooktops are hard to clean and hold up to clean under. If you keep up with spills on glass cooktop, it always looks good. Since you are used to it, I wouldn’t switch. I prefer electric ovens and dryers and top load washing machines. Our Rinnai tankless water heater does a good job though the bathroom we added gets it last. We don’t have recirculating. We may need another one the same size tethered to it with our new bathroom remodel. But it is nice not to worry about water damage from a tank. Spend your upgrade money on items you can not add later.

I switched to a gas stove in 2000 when gas lines were installed in our subdivision. It didn't take too long for the stove grates to become a thorn in my side. I cleaned them nightly after dinner but some spills got baked on. I hated scrubbing the black marks off those gray grates! Then a friend told me a trick she used. Put the grates into a large trash bag, being careful not to rip the bag, and pour a cup or more of household ammonia into the bag then seal tight with a twist tie. I flipped and sort of shook the bag a few times. Leave overnight or at least several hours. In a well ventilated room (I also wore an N-95 mask) open the bag remove the grates & rinse them under hot water -all the baked on food and stains will rinse off! Now I do this about every 3-4 months and my grates look brand new with very little effort.

~Diane
 

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Induction. Behaves like gas; cleans like electric glass cooktop; add'l + is safety features. I changed from gas to induction during our recent reno and couldn't be happier.

Ingrid

I switched from gas to an all-induction cooktop eight years ago, and don't ever want to go back to cooking with an open flame in my kitchen. Well, except maybe if I lived in the mountains, I'd install an auxiliary AGA to keep my kitchen warm in the winter!
 

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I am not impressed with buyers agents anyway. Let’s face it, though they technically represent you, they still have a vested interest in getting the deal done so they can get their share of the commission. So they cannot be totally objective either. That is why I think an attorney is the best bet.

When I helped my Son sell his house a few months ago it was the Buyer's Agent who held the deal together every time an issue arose...

George
 

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When I helped my Son sell his house a few months ago it was the Buyer's Agent who held the deal together every time an issue arose...

George
Exactly, George! There's definitely an anti-Realtor bias and that's a shame. In general, attorneys know more about Law, of course. But Realtors are specialists. Any realtor, residential or commercial, starts with a boilerplate contract that is universally used in that state. Failure to perform and occupancy are probably the two areas of major concern.
As much as people hate paying the realtor fees, it's like any kind of insurance. If you need it, you'll be glad you had it.
 
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