Many moons ago when I was still a teenager, my mother had me drive her around when she had to do the grocery shopping. She was very interested in antiques. So, she had me drive her to antique shops and estate sales. I am now very interested in antiques and I have my mother to thank for that. She is no longer with us but I often think of the good times we had together.
That is SO sweet!We only did one professional lesson so far due to SAT practice and AP courses. He finished SAT's (great score) and will now do the lessons. One kid in the car only and I love so many of your ideas. Here is my contract.
Driving Contract
1. I will only have one person in a car other than family at one time. This person must be approved by one of you. X (best friend) is approved.
2. No night driving without an adult.
3. I understand that if for any reason I am unable to drive, I will call one of you to get me. NO QUESTIONS ASKED. However, I understand you reserve the right to discuss the situation CALMLY the next day.
4. I will continue to accept all critiques by my parents with good spirits.
5. I will obey all speed limits.
6. I will not eat any food or consume any drinks while driving.
7. I will not play music loudly.
8. I will keep two hands on the wheel.
9. I will never answer my phone or a text while I am driving. If the phone rings (including texting) I will pull over safely if I want to answer it.
10. I will check my phone once I arrive at my destination in case it was one of my parents calling. I will always call my parents back as soon as the car is stopped safely.
11. If I receive a ticket, I will pay for it out of my own money.
12. I will only drive the car with your permission. I will tell you where I am going and when I will be home. If I want to change my plans, I will call to get permission before I go anywhere.
13. Everyone in the car will wear seat belts or the car doesn’t move.
14. I will take the online drivers’ education class and two more private lessons (paid for by parents)
15. I will do the driving with my family when asked unless there is a specific reason (such as sickness)
16. I will do any local errands when my parents request it with my own gas.
17. I will be a defensive driver. I will remember to look both ways, remember about stale greens, remember that a turn signal by another car doesn’t mean the other car will definitely turn. I will not trust little children. I will follow other cars at a safe distance. I will remember better safe than sorry.
18. If I am told I may not take the car for any reason, I will not argue.
If I ever am in an accident, here is what I will remember:
1) Get the name, license number, phone number, and insurance information of the other driver.
2) Get the name and phone number of any witnesses or passengers in any vehicles involved.
3) Ask if anyone is hurt
4) Pull out your cell phone and take a picture(s) of the vehicles before they are moved. -This is the step most people forget, and frequently the best indication of what really happened.
5) If the damage is more than a minor scrape, or if there is any bodily injury, call the local authority and have a police report made. 911
6) Be sympathetic to the other party but do not make statements that will be construed to being at fault, just get the info and let the insurance companies take care of the accident.
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