A reality check. Airbnb may not have 'resort fees', they just call them 'service fees'. Same thing, different name, bigger dollar amount. If that airbnb is owned/managed by somebody else, then add another layer, only this time they usually call it a management fee. Some add a ridiculous amount for cleaning; I've seen up to $500 for cleaning. Whether airbnb or VRBO or whatever variation, they all add extra fees that can almost double the per night cost of the lodging. I was checking a 4 night stay in a small town on the Oregon Coast in the off season. Per night was $150 + tax + $90 service fee + $226 managers fee added $110/night to the bill. Vacasa is the worst at this and they seem to have taken over all the local management companies I've used in the past.
I'm also one who won't exchange into a resort that adds resort fees, and my personal pet peeve, housekeeping fees. I think it just encourages bad behavior and while in theory it shouldn't matter if the price is still right, it still ticks me off. The same thing goes for other rental lodging. Don't tell me the price is $150/night if it's really $260/night.
Sue