A sad message from John M Faeth's wife [photo added 5/5]

Dear TUG Members,

Each of you knew John Faeth differently. But I share with you his passing.
John died of a massive stroke, which occurred on Monday the 28th.

You should know he greatly enjoyed being a part of TUG. It brought him laughter, fun, and such
wonderful friendships. Thank you all for the joy you brought to his life.

A Brief Tribute to my Husband John...

He was a tough guy. He was a total softy. He drove me crazy, and I could never keep up with him
AND I LOVED him no matter what. WHY? Simply, he was the FINEST human being I've ever known.
Truly. His heart was bigger than most of us hope to have. He gave when he didn't have to. He
loved those he didn't know. He gave to those in need, regardless of his feelings or desires.

We should all remember the greatest teachings John brought.
Love each other... you don't have to like someone to love them.
Confront- mean what you say and say what you mean.... especially if it's hard to do.
And, always THINK past what you are told... You can make a difference if you use the gift God
gave you and consider more than just what you are told.
Think for yourself.

Live life- travel, explore, think, try, be, consider, and always have heart. That is what John
gave to anyone who listened. Listen now. Go forward with life and love, make him happy. That's
what I ask for him.

The following are 2 Irish Prayers. If so inclined, pour a shot, and drink at the end of each
prayer. He would have loved that... I would love that. Most of all, be kind and loving with all
your heart... that was what he left me... I share it with you.


Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry—
I am not there... I did not die...

This is how John said goodbye to those he loved:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
And the rains fall soft upon your fields,
And, until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of His hand,
So you may be forty years in heaven before the devil knows you're there.

If you have a desire to do something, please honor him with a gift to charity. His favorite
charities were Habitat for Humanity, Hospitalized Veterans, and giving to animal shelters and associations. Even
a small act of random kindness always pleased him greatly.

With great sadness,
Lorelei Faeth
John's Wife

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Added on 5/5/08

John on Vacation on St. John, USVI.

Thank you for sending this.

I was just reading some old post's from John this afternoon, and found him to be very nknowledgeable and wise and kind hearted. I'm not always able to get on TUG to read the forums but when I do I try to catch up. His name seems to have been everywhere or on many posts. He will be missed. My condolences to his wife and family.

This is so sad. I remember calling John about 3 months ago about advice on escrow problems with my WMH. He was not involved nor was he going to get any money out of the transaction (that was already in escrow). Nonetheless, he spent over an hour with me giving me advice, guiding me about my purchases, helping me navigate the escrow process and just sharing his love of his job with me. What a kind and giving person he was. I will truly miss him. My best wishes to his family. Katherine

Sad news, My condolences to the family.

John was a great guy who was extremely generous with his expert advice on TS closing and escrow. He will be greatly missed on TUG.

I will make sure his wife receives all posts in this thread.

He will be missed and my fondest sympathies to his wife and family and loved ones. I will make a donation to an animal shelter here In Mexico, much needed , hope it is okay it is in Mexico but it will be in his memory and honor.

You are in my prayers in this time of great loss!

I always enjoyed reading John's posts and his advice was always well thought out and kind. It is so thoughtful for Lorelei to post here with such a wonderful tribute. Hugs and prayers for John's family.

Our prayers are with Lorelei.

This was indeed a shock to read. I always enjoyed looking forward to John's input on the issues here. Only God truly knows the extent of John's influence on us all. He will be deeply missed.

Marty

Condolences to Lorelei and the rest of John's family - you're in my prayers tonight, may God ease your sorrow and make your wonderful memories gentle and generous to your spirit.

John's advice and kindness here will be missed.

Wow, this is truly sad. I never had a chance to meet John, but I feel I know him from his posts. John and his wife will be in my prayers.

Thanks John, wherever you are, for helping the timeshare community. It's better off because you were here. May you rest in peace.

John was a good man who helped me immeasurably!! So sorry to hear of his passing

George

I only knew John through his TUG postings, yet as many did, I felt I knew him. His postings showed him to be a kind man, generous with his time and helpful to people. He will be greatly missed.

Condolences to Lorelei and all the friends and relatives whose lives he touched.

Fern

This is a surprise and sad news. Our condolences to Lorelei and John's family.

John, your knowledgeable postings will be missed.

I was saddened to read this.
I did not know John personally, but always took the time to read his posts on the boards. His knowledge and his posts will be grrstly missed by many.

First Ken K left us so suddenly and now John. It's so hard to believe. They were both such vibrant, active, kind, loving, caring, brilliant men. Life can be so tough and sorrowful for those left behind.

I had the pleasure of knowing John through his TUG posts and many long phone conversations. We planned to meet in person several times but something happened each time, and one or the other of us had to cancel. Now I'll have to wait until we meet in heaven.

Dear Lorelei, without mentioning anything too personal on this public forum, I hope you know that John loved you deeply, and always would. His only "complaint" about you was, "We're so damn much alike". Considering what a truly wonderful human being he was, that's quite a tribute to you. He was such a unique, honest, altruistic person with a heart of gold.

When last we spoke, John was very happy with his new home and lifestyle in Pa.. He was upbeat, as always, and looking forward to doing a "million things."

He touched so many lives and will be sorely missed.

I'm so sorry...we get to know people here at TUG, have some affinity for "our" people. John was definitely one of them..
Connie

Very sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with John's family and friends.

Maria

Lorelei and family

Thank you for the warm, loving post. Our TUG family will not be the same.

Our thoughts and prayers are with John's family, it is so sad when we loose one of our own.

Condolences to the family.

So very, very sorry. He will be greatly missed!

I'm so sorry to hear this. Condolences to the family.

John was one of the good guys and will be greatly missed.

John Chase

Likewise, sympathies to John's loved ones. I'm saddened that he only got to enjoy his new home in the Poconos for such a short period of time. May he RIP.

Yvonne & David Bennett
Milw, WI

My heart is heavy and the tears are freely flowing down my cheeks -- Tuggers are like family even though we may never meet them in person and I am feeling the loss. My condolences to all of his family! Cathyb