. When we were driving home the consensus of my family and most others on our trip was that we didn't want to come back to HHI again, and we told the travel office that if they had another contest for a trip to HHI, that we wouldn't even try to win it. The travel office received a lot of complaints so this year we are going to Washington DC. The year after HHI the trip was to Destin Fl (stayed at the Sandestin Hilton) and everyone I talked to loved it. Some people love HHI, but if your family likes to go do things besides the beach and golf, HHI is not the place IMHO. If you do go, visit Savanna, which was our favorite part of that whole trip.
Lest I let this slide, I'll say that I happen to be very familiar with both Hilton Head AND Sandestin/Destin Beach and the Sandestin Hilton Hotel itself , since we go to Destin area each year for a medical meeting and (small world) stay at the Sandestin Hilton Hotel each time.....I definitely hate that trip, literally despise it....the hotel is pure 1960's (& mostly unchanged)---- very musty, dated rooms (all of them), very small rooms with poor views, and there are zero amenities!!! no movies rentable on TV, for ex.... small, old tv's too.
and the whole Sandestin and Destin areas are sort of ugly ....flat unchanging landscape and small scrubby trees only while driving along the highway (no ocean views as you drive, btw---and NOT a scenic drive at all), and absolutely not a pretty sight anywhere "off the beach"... the huge high-rise condos, one after another, which have taken over along the beach over the last 6 years, completely dominate the scenery once you do reach the ocean. And there's not a good way to drive to that destination.....poor highways and no interstate....more pot-holes on South 331 to Sandestin/Destin than the Iraqi war zone.... and south of Montgomery,Al. it's the only choice, and a long 3.5 hours of misery....lots of 18-wheelers and no passing opportunities. Small winding state highway, poorly maintained.
The beach (water) there is very pretty, no doubt....lovely white sand, BUT there's only about 30 feet of it...and , worst part, it's very difficult to walk thru, period--- you bog down so much. At the end of the 30 feet of too-soft sand, there's a steep incline of about 30 degrees down to the water, and that width is even less...maybe 15-20 feet and no more!!! And that 30-degree incline makes it extremely difficult to walk on the beach at all....hopefully, if you have one leg shorter than the other, you'll be OK if walking in the right direction. We don't even try to walk due to the incline and too-soft sand...neither is amenable to walking. You'll see families playing in one spot, but never walking.
You see, the beach there has undergone SEVERE erosion from the recent hurricanes and storms, and to be honest, the area is urgently trying to restore the beach (then it'll be only 45-48 feet wide) before everyone leaves permanently. For now, it's still quite bad.....practically speaking NO beach to walk or play on. Each bad storm they've lost from 1-2 linear feet of beach sand or more. The water color is definitely prettier than typical east-coast beaches, yes, but that's not enough to garner my interest at all.
All gulf coast beaches are just different ----sand meets water, but it's not at all user-friendly (except for fishing). You'll see few, if any, kids or families running ALONG the beach, playing games or flying kites, and definitely no bikes or wind-driven "vehicles"----not enuf room, and not flat enuf!
Our kids didn't need the parents' recommendation to "not go back", but stated it on their own. And, furthermore, east-coast beaches such as Hilton Head, Daytona, etc. do not have "brown sand"....it's light-to-medium grayish if anything, and that's not a bad color, just what it is----and the darker silty fine nature is due to the type of soil and mineral content in the area, shell content, etc.----- and also the water itself is definitely not "brown". It appears darker but it's the same as California coast water, or NY, or Jersey, or anywhere along the Carolinas. Not brown, but again a grayish tone.....it's not "dirty", just darker.
Obviously water nearer the Caribbean becomes much clearer and more "aqua", which is glorious!!! Fine. But there are compromises. The east coast beaches are all very WIDE and FLAT, amenable to walking, biking, playing, etc. As someone said, even driving a vehicle on it is permitted in some areas. Try to drive or walk on Sandestin's beach and you'll be leaning hard toward falling in. NOT as walkable, playable, and definitely not biker-friendly (actually it's quite impossible).
And don't visit Destin in late summer or you cannot go into the ocean for the thick green slime, and i mean thick, for the first 30 feet into the ocean. Cannot even get in, it's so gross, but i know that's "mother nature", and the storms produce such at that time of year.....doesn't happen north of Ft. Lauderdale, Florida.
Sorry, but I had to defend the beautiful beaches of the Carolinas, where so many people are enjoying and relocating to from the north, that I truly fear for Hilton Head's sinking in the near future. The gulf coast? You can have it. and i do appreciate the Caribbean-type water, because i've been there quite a bit, but the gulf has great fishing water and not vacation water.
And anyone liking the Sandestin Hilton might as well book a week at ANY old Holiday Inn along the coast, seriously...there's no difference. We despise that tired old hotel. (And why fix it up, because the lobby floor is covered in sand and water every time a hurricane comes thru, for real.) The medical meeting is held there because it's relatively inexpensive, and centrally located for docs from Ga, Al, Fl, and La. -----a lot from nearby Alabama (directly above it) ---- and Al. has few beaches to choose from, anyway----might as well go straight south and drop anchor...certainly no other beach which is as convenient.....Marty (jme)