We drive the I-95 corridor from Boston to southeast Florida A LOT.
I agree with prior posts that a one-night stay over is probably a good idea since you'll be dealing with the Boston, NYC, and Washington DC metro areas all in one day and that will be exhausting.
If I were going to make this trip, I'd probably find a place in Fayetteville NC, which looks about 11.5 to 12 hours. That's a long day in a car.
I think I would leave at 5:30 a.m. from Boston so that I'd be driving through metro NYC around 10:00 a.m. and then driving through Washington DC area around 2 - 3 p.m. and getting to Fayetteville around 6 or 7 p.m. Most of this driving will be during the daylight, which helps with staying awake and also for safety.
I'd get up the next morning, have a nice breakfast, get on the road by 9-10 a.m. and get to HHI around 2 or 3.
If your DH is insistent on doing this trip in one day (and it's possible) (we driven from Southeast Florida to NYC in 19+ hours several times without staying over night), then I would suggest:
- try to do as much of your driving in the daylight, so leaving at 11:00 p.m. is bad idea. That's many many hours in the dark.
- try to minimize rest breaks and maximum each stop by getting gas, food, and bathroom break all in one stop. We try to not stop every often (once every 3 or 4 hours).
- use highway rest areas whenever possible. Sometimes those off highway stops can take a lot of time because the facilities are not immediately off the highway. Sometimes when we get off the highway and the services aren't immediately visible, I'll jump right back on the highway.
- take turns driving even if you don't feel tried. The spouse that isn't driving can get bored quickly and sharing driving will keep both spouses more alert.
- we pack a small cooler for drinks, sandwiches, and snacks which minimizes the need to stop for these items. Stopping is your enemy....