Hello, everyone. I'm sorry to go so long without posting an update. I've been having a lot of health problems the past few years, and I was having a relapse end of November/beginning of December, although I seem to be doing better now. I also just got upset whenever I thought of this situation, so I didn't want to talk about it!
I want to give a big "Thank you" to BlueBoy for his help! BlueBoy went to the Harborside and spoke to the staff there, and offered to speak to the Paradise Island police, too. Although this is still unresolved (see below), I now have a contact at the Harborside, and offers of further help from them. Without someone going there in person, I don't think I'd have either of those things. Thanks very much, BlueBoy! :whoopie:
As an update, the situation is still unresolved, however, Paypal has reopened their investigation (or more accurately, the credit card company has reopened theirs.) I had already withdrawn the $1200 from the Paypal account before Paypal received the fraud complaint, and Paypal has billed me for the $1200 (or rather, my account is at -$1200.) Paypal threatened to suspend my account if I didn't pay the $1200, but they haven't followed through, perhaps because the investigation has been re-opened. Paypal has called me twice asking to return the $1200, but when I point out that they have an open investigation, they say OK. I'm willing to return the $1200 if I have to, but I feel Paypal has little incentive to keep investigating if I do. So, I'd rather wait.
Let's see if I can remember the other questions on this thread. I was asked if I ever spoke to the renter by phone. No, I called him both when setting up the rental and after the fraud complaint, but only got voice mail. I do think this was a "red flag" with the rental, but it was getting close to check-in and I was willing to take more risks than I would have further from check-in!
I did so some searches after the fraud complaint was made, including paying a few dollars for a reverse phone look-up. The phone number I have is a landline registered to the same name that the renter gave me, but the address on the phone is a PO Box. (I didn't even know you could register a landline to a PO Box!)
I don't know if I will try to pursue this any further. I know I shouldn't let this situation get to me, but I have to confess that it has. I'm also having trouble listing things on Craigslist (see this thread:
http://www.tugbbs.com/forums/showthread.php?t=133975 ) Ugh, I'm generally too sick to use my timeshares and renting them out is such a hassle! I'm starting to regret ever buying my timeshares. I really have to work harder at selling some/giving some away.