famy27
TUG Member
Just to clarify, I agree that OP was probably scammed. I even agree that OP should try to get some money back from seller.
I also agree that the OP should not be afraid to rent in the future, to use PayPal and to get those confirmations right away.
But, I do disagree that the OP did an appropriate amount of due diligence. After all, the OP says:
It seems to me that this key piece of information could have been easily obtained by OP prior to sending the check. I'm not blaming the victim, but I also do not see the point of rushing to conclude that the Seller is 100% wrong. The seller could just have been honestly confused. Hey, it happens. And hopefully, because of this forum, it will happen to fewer people.
I've rented hundreds of hotel rooms from a variety of sources and it has never occurred to me to call a resort and verify if a view offered actually exists. The OP did more due diligence than I think the average renter would do. If we create an unrealistic standard of research/diligence for private rentals, that hurts everyone. It makes potential renters skittish and may discourage rentals. It increases work in the amount of hand-holding owners have to do. The onus of making sure a rental ad is correct should fall on the owner.